Abuse is something
celebrities across the world know all too well, but are very good at hiding it
or sharing it with the world. Whether it is physical abuse, verbal abuse, and
the most prominent one substance abuse.
The sad thing is that
fans look the other way when it is their favourite celebrity involved in substance
abuse. But when it is the case of physical abuse, twitter and Facebook will be
buzzing with messages of how the partner who has hurting the other should be
sent to jail, and must rot in hell, etc. Then the couple gets back together and
charges are dropped, the fans are left speechless and feeling stupid, this is a
vicious cycle that will never end.
That is not the issue,
the issue is that when someone like Chris Brown acts violently and is in and
out of court like it is a hobby. This same guy has young boys looking up to
him, what kind of message does he send to his fans (who believe that Chris can
never do wrong). Or that someone like kwaito star, Zola, who was the pillar of
his community turns out to be womaniser and a women abuser. Then we get many
celebrities across the world who have the guts to stand in front of cameras and
tell their young fans that “drug can kill you” or the most famous line, “don’t
do drugs”. Whilst the same person is high on drugs as they say that. Talk about
hypocrisy at its best.
It is true that not all
that glitters is gold, lifestyles that celebrities lead are not all glamorous,
and they can lead to destruction. Young people must be aware of that reality. And
must realise that simplicity is the ultimate sophistication. There is no fault
in choosing a career that will ensure that you lead a simple life that has no peer
pressure and certain expectations because of what you do and who you are.